You’re Only as Good as Your Worst Day

https://fs.blog/2020/12/worst-day/

by feross • 6 years ago

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obilgic• 6 years ago

I would change it as "You’re Only As Good As Your Moving Average" because things should progress, the best/worst days should count but shouldn't skew who you are, nevertheless interesting read.

teddyh• 6 years ago

But they’re sure to remember the time when you stepped up, stretched the limits of your abilities, and delivered what seemed impossible at short notice

This seems like yet another thinly veiled attempt to make overwork the new norm.

conception• 6 years ago

Yeah, they’ll remember they can abuse you again in the future to cover for poor management.

treis• 6 years ago

For some reason HN has this bizarre view of the world where it's full of pyschopaths out there to exploit developers. That's not really the case. Most managers will reward developers that save their hide. And even if your direct manager doesn't the product owner/client/business will and so will your coworkers.

Yes, there are places where it becomes routine to pull heroic hours. But that's not most places.

joeberon2• 6 years ago

imo it's a small group of super genius people who are trying to justify that ability to work at full capacity at all times should be a universal trait among engineers somehow

lotsofpulp• 6 years ago

Could also be owners who want to juice out as much labor as they can.

hue32• 6 years ago

I feel like these days almost every blog/medium/substack post is either about glorifying overwork, giving your entire life to a brand/company, or praising the whole "hustle culture". I don't know how it started or the reasons people have to write such posts, but it can be dangerous to create this mindset within society. As if current job market didn't exploit workers enough...

205g03• 6 years ago

Who of you with recent, significant successes (pls mention them)—what's your system to stay hyper-productive and focused even on your worst days?

pram• 6 years ago

microdosing cocaine

baxtr• 6 years ago

I like the question and at the same time I’m not sure if I understand what you are looking for. If I’m “hyper-productive” and “focused” on my “worst day”, it obviously wasn’t my worst day? Bad days usually are days when I can’t focus. Are you looking for people who never have a bad day?

daxfohl2• 6 years ago

I think this person is reading the article too literally.

205g03• 6 years ago

I’m not sure if I understand what you are looking for.

I like OP's post but would love to get some empirical data.

If I’m “hyper-productive” and “focused” on my “worst day”, it obviously wasn’t my worst day?

Good q, I could also have asked: What's your system to overcome set-backs which usually distract you and turn an ok day into a bad day. Or just, how to turn a lazy or bad started day into a good day.

joncrane• 6 years ago

I don't think the OP story is very good; we all make mistakes but the point of the story is about organizations, not people for the most part.

There is no reason to "stay hyper-productive and focused" every single day. Just as the work ebbs and flows, a person's energy ebbs and flows.

The key is to develop _habits_ which serve you well on "off" days. Put forth the effort to do things like wake up at the same time, log in and do certain "ceremonies" of work, always do SOMEthing productive every day.

It's the exact same thing as forcing yourself to go to the gym every day no matter what. You don't have to set new personal records every time. But if you go and put in at least SOME level of effort, push yourself at least somewhat, then on the "bad" days you can just put yourself on autopilot and still put in a good (not GREAT, not superb, not fantastic, just GOOD) performance. And that's what matters.

205g03• 6 years ago

Tried habit-forming measurements, they've never worked and feel like a scam from the self-help industry.

forcing yourself to go to the gym every day

This also never worked for me. While going to the gym is super effective, I found it the most boring and brain-deadening activity ever—I degenerate there even more than browsing Reddit for two hours. In contrast, I don't have a problem to motivate myself to go and play Tennis, without any habit-forming voodoo.

joeberon2• 6 years ago

Microdosing LSD is common solution to this in tech industry

kayodelycaon2• 6 years ago

I’ve recently had one of my short stories read on a podcast and it’s gotten significant attention from a number of people.

The key to my productivity? Just working a little every day. I don’t do sprinting. It burns me out.

kordlessagain• 6 years ago

This is a fluff article which might as well be saying "sometimes it rains".

The total output of advice in this article are the last two lines:

Very few people plan or prepare for what they’ll do and how they’ll act during those times. Those who do might well end up turning their worst day into their best.

My suggestion for not failing miserably when something goes wrong is to manage one's stress levels. A therapist once said to me "everyone has their breaking point". Her suggestion was don't allow others to place or allocate their stresses on you, especially when you may venerable to taking on other's stresses through codependent behaviors.

system16• 6 years ago

For work related stress, one thing that I always fall back on when the pressure starts mounting is to to take a deep breath, exhale, and ask myself: "Is [current problem that seems like the end of the world] going to matter in 100 years?" It's never been "yes."

It puts it into perspective for me. Mind you I don't work in anything mission critical where lives are at stake, so this wouldn't work for everybody.

calciphus• 6 years ago

Most of the time it won't matter in 5 years even.

sundvor• 6 years ago

Those who do might well end up turning their worst day into their best.

I'm reading this as if well, perhaps the day didn't go wrong enough? There's SO many other ways to spin a story like that, and understanding that everyone has a breaking point is indeed a very important one.

There's something very different between having clarity of mind and hyper focus under fire (the crisis situation at work), and handling multiple life stresses (e.g. family+work conflicts+++) at the same time. I mean, personally I can get a bit of a kick out of the first part - state of flow etc, whereas grinding family demands etc combined with other events that stack up in a cumulative manner is something completely different. To be better at the latter I hit the weights on a regular basis, which helps but does not make one immune.

daxfohl2• 6 years ago

Kind of fatalistic, no? Paraphrasing, "You can't control how you respond when everything goes wrong" and "That's what you're to be judged by". So, now what?

kayodelycaon2• 6 years ago

As someone who is bipolar and had many “worst days”, this article emphasizes the wrong things. I’ve hurt plenty of people with my episodes but I’ve lost few friends.

It is not the worst day that matters to most people but what you do after that worst day.

I try to make things right. My friends know who I am at my heart. They know my episodes are beyond my control. As a result, most of them stick by me because I will take responsibility for the damage my actions and words have caused.

I also plan in depth for episodes. My friends have my permission to intervene, even if I try to push them away or refuse to accept help. Most of these measures have never been used but they are there.

My friends trust me because of this.

kovac• 6 years ago

Lots of banal sweeping statements and unqualified assertions. Unless you have lots of "worst days", people tend to remember what you do most of the time and companies tend to recognise you for the money you bring in.

api• 6 years ago

In that case I'm a low-grade moron, thanks.

hue32• 6 years ago

If we were all to adopt this article's metrics, I'm sure everyone is.

ChrisMarshallNY• 6 years ago

I enjoyed the read (but it isn't really the type of article I usually come here to read. It seems to be something that may be better served in a management or personal improvement venue). It's a bit disappointing to see it being treated so cynically, but that's really who we are, in this industry (wish it were different, but we need to accept the bad with the good).

When a program stops working, do you face a baffling error message with no further guidance or clear instructions for how to get help?

Error handling is incredibly important to me.

Not just trapping errors, but also presenting them to the end-user. Masking technical details is quite important. Most engineers won't ever be informed that the error happened, so there's no reason to provide a core dump to the user. They just need to know that the program has encountered an anomaly, and how that affects the end user, at that moment. They need to be informed of the consequences of the error, and any possible mitigation.

Helping to remove the "emotional sting" from an error message is important. There was this excellent comedy routine, in the early 'oughts, called "Welcome to the Internet Help Desk"[0]. In it, the support rep encounters a user that breaks down in tears, when confronted by a fairly standard Microsoft error message.

I've found that the best way to resolve errors, is to not encounter them. This is accomplished by a combination of good programming, and good usability. Doing things like disabling or hiding paths that could lead to errors, developing a carefully-worded product glossary, etc.

[0] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nL24aNugo_4

hyperpape• 6 years ago

There was a related article that some people here might prefer. It was about programming in particular, and was also a bit more precise. "Programming is a loser's game" https://tomgamon.com/posts/a-losers-game/ (reactions at https://lobste.rs/s/iqctuy/programming_is_losers_game).

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