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I know someone in South Florida, who, while in a funeral cortege, was directed to go through a photo red light by motorcycle policemen managing traffic. Everybody who went through the red light was issued a ticket. The city learned of the error but instead of rectifying the error at the department, required the mourners to submit forms to have their tickets invalidated.

Not being able to form relationships quickly.

Feeling the need to be entirely self-reliant and not asking for help or admitting difficulty.

Not asserting my preferences, even though I had no problem asserting rights and formal entitlements.

Lacking sexual confidence in high school.

I organize my work tasks and notes in org-mode by Area>Project>Task in a loose GTD system. For personal tasks, I similarly use Things 3 on my iPhone.

I plan each work day on index cards, one task per card. This helps me to limit work in progress so I’m not all over the place. Using index cards, it’s easy to reprioritize tasks, modify processes, and absorb emergent tasks.

Paid for and use nearly daily:

ATracker Pro (time-logging)

Paprika 3 (recipe management)

Due (timed reminders)

Just Press Record (voice recorder)

Day One (journal)

Things 3 (task management)

Copied+ (clipboard manager)

CarbonFin Outliner

* A manager discusses an unnamed worker's performance issues in front of the group, rather than confront the individual.

* Expecting strong performers to carry the weak without requiring the latter to step up their game.

* Requiring employee's to collect data (e.g. time-use tracking) that is never reviewed or analyzed.

This is information you should corral beforehand, based on a list I made of what had to be done after my father died:

POST-MORTEM INFORMATION

bills in your name

charity contributions, automatically withdrawn

friends, employers, and relatives to inform

funeral arrangements

government agencies to inform of death

- county

- DMV

- library

- Medicare

- Social Security

- voter registration board

health care provider list

- physicians

- primary care provider

- specialists

- medical and dental insurance companies

- prescription insurance company

hiding places

internet service provider

legal documents

- will

- living will and advance directives

- power of attorney

- health care power of attorney

life insurance policies

medical bills and health insurance records

memberships to terminate

obituary information

online accounts

- banking

- credit cards

- credit reporting agencies

- data backup

- health care portals

- health insurance

- media storage

- social media

subscriptions

- apps and software

- media, paper and online

- shopping services

organizations and educational institutions to inform

pensions

professional services

- attorney, etc.

survivor and death benefits

- employer

- military

- Social Security

tax exemptions available for survivor

- widow/er tax exemption

tax information, personal

- tax documents and information (current year)

- Federal

- state

- city

- tax preparer/accountant contact information

utilities

- electric

- phone

- fuel

- ISP

valuable possessions and heirlooms

vehicle registration and title

vital records and government ID

- birth certificate

- marriage license

- driver's license or state-issued ID

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