Facebook 'memorialises' profiles

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/technology/8327607.stm

by madmotive • 17 years ago

35 28 17 years ago

news.bbc.co.uk

zzleeper• 17 years ago

A very good friend of mine just died yesterday, so I kinda understand why it's a really good idea to do that =/

robotron• 17 years ago

Someone in my community of friends passed away recently and continually shows up in the new "reconnect with" recommendations. This is timely and appropriate I think.

DanielBMarkham2• 17 years ago

At first blush, this seems cheesy, but it's the wave of the future.

Pieces of dead people are going to persist more and more on the net. The pieces will become more and more interactive and eventually dead people will outnumber living people on the net.

Sounds strange, but that's the trend.

jimbokun• 17 years ago

It's just hard to get the tone just right. Obviously, they need to handle dead people's pages somehow. But they don't want to look like they are profiting off of it, either. They certainly don't want to seem like they are "memorialising" the deceased just as a way to keep getting ad impressions for someone even after they are gone.

DanielBMarkham2• 17 years ago

Agreed. I think it's going to take a long time to get the tone just right.

But technology may not wait for human protocols to catch up. It would be very easy, for instance, for me to write a program that visited various forums and posted jokes. This bot could run in the cloud. In fact, people are already doing similar things.

Right now it's just static content, and content owned by one service, so we can look to that service for some kind of decorum. But as more computational power gets controlled by individuals, this content will become more dynamic and more fluid. Then it's kind of hard to know whom to, er, blame.

khafra• 17 years ago

Considering the trends I've seen toward memorializing the dead in decals on car windows, I don't think it'll be too hard to get the tone close enough to right to last them 'til the Singularity.

catch23• 17 years ago

Lots of people create web pages for the deceased where visitors can add comments to. This seems like an obvious thing for Facebook to do.

Edinburger• 17 years ago

I am torn on this. For some folks, this will be a wonderful persistent reminder of the deceased and a place to leave memorial messages. For other folks, it could become an awkward persistent reminder that just makes it hard to grieve and move on.

mechanical_fish4• 17 years ago

It is always hard to grieve and move on.

And, though I have met quite a few people who have lost friends and family members, I don't recall anyone whose response to losing a loved one was to destroy all the mementoes. One is far more likely to cherish them.

scotth• 17 years ago

Why would they remove status updates?

I could see myself wanting to go back and read through a deceased friend's online history, just to remember.

riklomas• 17 years ago

It might not be too pleasant to read the last status updates of someone who was depressed and committed suicide for example

sp332• 17 years ago

pleasant isn't the point.

mechanical_fish4• 17 years ago

Like many editorial decisions, I'm not sure this one can be properly explained in words.

If you did explain it, the explanation might well sound like a post hoc rationalization. Which is okay. Writing, especially about the dead, is more art than science.

I'm willing to give the editors the benefit of the doubt. They've seen more Facebook pages of the deceased than I have.

a-priori• 17 years ago

I think they should allow the next-of-kin to choose what they want memorialized, what they want kept private (or perhaps family-only) and what they want destroyed.

I would imagine most families would want to keep the deceased's status messages, but not all of them (in cases of suicide, for example, as riklomas pointed out).

araneae• 17 years ago

If I died, I wouldn't want my parents to have access to my Facebook page.

j_baker• 17 years ago

This seems really coincidental considering that Mark Zuckerberg got a question about what facebook was doing to preserve our data for the next 2,000 years.

His response was "I like thinking in the long-term, but not that long-term". Anyone else get the impression that this is a compromise?

byrneseyeview• 17 years ago

I think they've been doing this for a long time: http://www.usatoday.com/news/nation/2007-05-08-facebook-vate... . But it's a smart PR move to talk it up after the "next 2000 years" question. (Certainly better than waiting for a tragedy, like last time.)

mechanical_fish4• 17 years ago

Hm:

When reporting a death, users must offer "proof" by submitting either an obituary or news article.

So, gothic entrepreneurs [1], here's a startup business case for you: Figure out how to run the business which provides the service that newspaper obits provide. [2] Because the newspapers aren't going to be around to do it for much longer.

---

[1] Only tasteful gothic entrepreneurs, please. Working with this idea is going to require a very careful touch.

[2] Obituaries cost a lot to publish -- well north of a hundred dollars -- and I was going to rant about that, but then it occurred to me that (at least in theory) a newspaper needs to fact-check an obit before sending it to press. This is presumably why entities like Facebook accept the validity of a newspaper obit. So you have to pay a fact-checker, and they don't work for free.

Having said that, it's hard to believe that a web-based business can't underprice a dead-trees newspaper in the factchecking business. But there will be problems: Local newspapers have a legal status that your website won't have, at least not for a while. One wonders how many paper copies of something one has to print and circulate in a region before it counts as a "newspaper". Or whether alternative newsweeklies would accept a small additional source of revenue by agreeing to publish your company's syndicated obits.

maukdaddy• 17 years ago

My first thought is...what's the easiest way to make a fake obituary so that I can prank my friends and get their profiles marked as memorialized? This is going to happen, and it's going to happen a lot.

PStamatiou• 17 years ago

gonna be hard for that to work if your friend updates their status message in the time that you reported them deceased and the days it takes facebook to get around to looking in to it..

nfnaaron• 17 years ago

[2] Obituaries cost a lot to publish...

I just finished reading Life on the Death Beat: A Handbook for Obituary Writers. It's written by three obituarists, for obituarists. (I'm not a journalist or an obituarist.) It's not officially out of print, but the publisher has none on hand and I had to check it out of the library.

It's about the business and practice of the obituary desk. It addresses fact checking, the peculiar difficulties of fact checking with grieving relatives, and the minor disasters that arise from leaving that out. Fascinating book, a peek into a job we probably don't think about.

On that grim note, I can also recommend Obit by Jim Sheeler, one of the co-authors of Death Beat. It's a collection of some of his best obituaries. He wrote for the Denver Post and the recently deceased Rocky Mountain news, among others.

albemuth• 17 years ago

I remember the feeling of stumbling into the profile of someone that had passed away, IMO it's better if they'd just allow family/friends to shut it down and have a way to backup the photos/updates.

tokenadult• 17 years ago

I wanted to know beforehand how to delete a Facebook account permanently

http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=16929680703

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1522294/how_to_quit...

and shared log-in information with immediate family members, so that we can decide what stays up and what gets deleted if one of us dies.

Based on other Internet businesses I have dealt with over the years, I think it is a lot more likely that my Facebook info will be permanently lost than that I will die while Facebook is still a going business, but I could be wrong.

inc• 17 years ago

Your Friend is now dead.

axod• 17 years ago

Surely it'll be a news item:

"Fred changed his status from Living to Dead!"

Facebook 'memorialises' profiles

Related Stories