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Elementary school teachers would read to their classes in the 80s. They always picked books like that Shel Silvertein shit whose message appealed more to adults than children. I remember being bored into fits of rage and thinking "This is making me dumber. I want to go outside."

special word to distinguish those who drop out to work

We say those students are "on leave." Gates and Zuckerberg often commend Harvard for its flexible leave policy. Given Harvard's overambitious undergrads, the bureaucratic overhead of granting a hiatus is a small price for the glory-by-association of a potential Microsoft or Facebook. Come to Harvard. Even if you don't graduate, you'll be rich and famous!

Try picking up the pieces after a massive hurricane when money can't buy a sudden scarcity of manual skill. Max Brooks captures this in World War Z when white collar workers become cannon fodder in the zombie apocalypse.

You spent your entire life training for a job that assumed a silicon goalpost. Don't be mad when society moves it.

We in the software sales biz call them "champions." Ultimately everyone just wants to go home at 5, and a new system jeopardizes that. So the only way to make headway is to get a disgruntled insider to move the chains.

True, the wrong spouse takes more years off your life than living under the Heathrow flight path.

But my point was spend time with your kids if you want. Kids are awesome. But if you still give a shit about your career, don't feel guilty about missing junior's bar mitzvah. If his genetic stock isn't marred by a poor spousal choice, the only long-term damage is the memoir chapter he'll write about the absentee dad who didn't witness his building Amazon.com, or winning several NBA championships.

As a neurodivergent person

You can just say "stupid." We don't judge.

In the words of comedian David So, "if I stole your identity, I'd kill myself," which encapsulates the general idea that the prior probability for entrepreneurial success is sufficiently small that nothing outside your hard assets is worth stealing.