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As a former staunch Republican, if there's one thing I've learned, it's that both parties have sold us out. I disagree with a lot of the Left's policies and many on the Right as well, but both parties advocate, in theory, for several things that would benefit all Americans -- yet it never happens. Republicans advocate for fiscal responsibility -- never happens. Democrats advocate for things like healthcare and cancelling student loans -- never happens. The Democrats held the House, Senate, and Presidency in 2021 for two years. The Republicans currently hold the House, Senate, and Presidency right now.

They're in power for themselves and their disregard for us is by design.

Just to give you an idea of how much this forum has degenerated, you got downvoted for expressing a respectful opinion. I got -4 for cracking a joke. This forum is full of intolerant digital Karens. Some guy tried evaluating me based on my Karma. Many people on here literally don't realize that this forum is not real life. They forget a world outside this website exists. It's wild.

I occasionally read a geopolitics blog that is one of the top search results on Google. I honestly couldn't do it anymore. Every other subheading was something along the lines of, "The experts are saying about Ukraine--Without the Fluff".

I'd much rather spend a reply helping someone that may still be helped rather than waste it on one of the more unethical, irredeemable pseuds that tend to congregate here looking for people who don't call them out for being such.

Well, that certainly makes two of us man. I'd be lying to you if I said this was my first account lol. I'm in Illinois; I don't know what exactly made me think you were in the UK, but figured I'd ask.

This forum is definitely either abounds with people of a certain type of inclination, or is presided over by people with said inclinations; probably both. So I hear ya loud and clear.

I think you chose the right person to help; not, as we say in Spanish, because I'm the last Coca Cola in the desert, but because I like to be guided and taught. If someone calls me out on something I need to change, I only appreciate them more.

So again, I'm incredibly grateful for you taking the time, man. If you're in Illinois somewhere, let me know because I could use another hour or four of your wise counsel.

I think you're right. Regarding my view on US vs. Eastern Europe, I think you're also right and your words changed my perspective. I think I was being inconsiderate in my assessment in that just because cultures are different, doesn't mean this person in that given country will actually help you more than that other person.

As you said, I'm literally experiencing "nice" people that are talking behind my back right now, so yeah, that definitely says something, as well.

Thank you for your thoughtful and edifying perspective. I really appreciate your words man. Feeling a lot better today, but still going through a lot of other things; it's a lonely road, but this is life. Other people are going through worse things. People like you and others in this comments section are a breath of fresh air to me, in my real, non-digital life.

Such a sobering perspective. Thank you, sir. I need to think more about this because you're 100% right. Now that I think of it, there's people who are nice to me, but because they seem aloof at times, they rub me the wrong way. I could very well be that with to others; I see myself as nice, they see me as having no substance.

Your last two paragraphs really slapped me in the face too, in a good way. When I think about it that way, it really does change how I view other people talking negative about me. People talk negative about me? Cool, I'll be someone who you can count on never being that way towards them.

I really appreciate your words. Where ever you are, God bless you and hope you're having a great day (I'm about to go get my third coffee #notashamed).

Oh, brother -- you have no idea how much I needed to hear this. I find it absolutely wild to think that I am going through this. I heard about people going through it and I felt like it would never happen to me. And here I am. I have no self pity so your words, advice, and counsel, are music to my ears and I can't express how grateful I am to you for taking real time out of your day to help me out in this way.

I'm literally re-reading your response because for me, it is something I need to study and internalize. This is serious, and I know I need to make some serious decisions in my life and change my perspective on certain things as well.

God bless you friend! I'm curious. Are you located in the UK?

Karm isn't the indicator by which one can be judged. There is an entire world outside of Hacker News. All you have to do is create an account and make a comment others disagree with and bam -- negative Karma.

There's a saying in Spanish that says, "Don't make firewood out of a fallen tree." You could learn a lot from that saying.

Maybe some will call me a troll or wierdo, but there's one thing I will never be: someone who makes firewood out of a fallen tree.

God bless you, as a person. I know we hide behind these screennames, but if I were standing in front of you, I would extend my hand and from the bottom of my heart, ask God to bless you, as a person, in real life.

I'm not perfect, so I can't blame you for addressing me as a troll. But I speak from the heart brother.

I appreciate it, brother. I will pray. My heart goes out to you for the support. God bless you. Compared to other people's problems, my problems are nothing. So I'm still very grateful for what God has given me. But I'm human, so things like what I described still catch me completely off guard. But life goes on.

Your statement doesn't though. Opinions don't become rooted in fact when we declare them so. No hard feelings, but your claim is akin to someone claiming that they stay away from Germans to avoid their extroverted nature.

It's kind of crazy when someone has an outlier experience and then tries to frame an entire country as being that way.

I've experienced a lot of cultures, countries, and environments. The United States is KNOWN for being a friendly country of people who will talk to you and smile at you for "no reason" other than because Americans are friendly.

Go to many countries in Europe or even Russia, you'll experience the exact oppositive. If you smile at people or talk to a stranger, you will essentially be treated as if something is wrong with you.

Everyone knows this is true about the US. Your comment is clearly trying to portray the United States in a negative light with something that is entirely not true.

And then there's my experience: someone who has lived in the US for over 30+ years.

I have to jump in the car soon, so to end on a good note: I now know you are not a troll, but I did start thinking that for a bit.

As an employee, we take part in charting the course for the business, but businesses have owners, and they have the ultimate say. A nation does not have owners. A nation has citizens, which is why democracy makes sense in a nation, but not a business; although loosely speaking, putting things to a vote when it's appropriate is not a bad thing. But no employee is entitled to that unless it is directly related to the scope of his or her employment.

Ultimately, you are conflating two different worlds: private enterprise and politics. They are two separate things; two separate animals; with two separate natures.

I don't even know how to respond to your comment. It's so royally detached from the reality of the world that I don't even know where to begin.

So there's only one group that has the power of the sword, and that is the government. There's only one group that holds a monopoly on violence, and that's government. There's only one group that can steal your home, along with anything else they want, using the state powers like eminent domain, and that's the government.

You say governments are accountable. Tell that to every Jeffrey Epstein victim and ask them how much accountability there is right now in government as it relates to the integrity of their investigation.

I say this with all due respect, but your comment is so far from fact that I think you may be trolling.

I'm not privileged at all. I work haaaaaaard for the money....so hard for the money.

The job market sucks right now, but mostly for white collar. Out of touch would be for me to say that a software developer or data engineer would not struggle to find a job right now.

Hospitality, trades, retail, and most working class jobs are much more stable right now.

Again, if someone is making $15 bucks an hour at McDonald's, I promise you that there is a job paying just as much in another industry that they could start within two weeks.

Out of touch is someone who thinks that is not possible.

Imagine bring pitch forks into the conversation because you disagree with a business technique.

Bud, go take a walk, breath, and then realize that we're talking about which work environment someone prefers based on employer practices. We're not talking about an inescapable government surveillance system that will monitor when you leave your house every day.

Boo hoo, I took 3 - 5 minutes to report an aggressive employee at a fast food restaurant I go to daily for coffee that is in my community.

Read the room, guy. You're taking time to type out a response to me, a complete stranger. And here you are, trying to portray me in a negative light because I put a couple minutes towards something that for me, was worth it.

If I was a business owner and had a long-time loyal customer that was getting treated poorly, I would want to know about it.

If I'm going to the same place every day, I don't want to continue experiencing the same poor service.

Don't you have better things to do with your limited time on Earth?

...Don't you?