Actually they are massively safer than tobacco cigarettes - around 95% less harmful[0]. At the moment there is no evidence that they act as a stepping stone to cigarettes (and some indication that they don't). So converting smokers to vapers could do a lot to reduce the huge harm done by tobacco.
I agree I'd rather not sit next to someone using one on a train but I'd also rather not sit next to someone eating strong smelling food.
[0] https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/e-cigarettes-an-e...