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It's a shame that what was a good idea of having a space and community for all men really just turned into the space for that 5-10 year window for guys that are retired but not yet ready to spend their day in a nursing home. At least where I am they have a reputation for being filled with oldies that are a little slow and not friendly to plain hostile.

Hopefully all of them around Australia aren't like this, but I have heard this same view from many people independently

Have worked a long time in a company that does $5k referrals. Have referred 4, 2 successful so $10k. One of them landed in my lap so treated the money as guilt free "buy whatever I want" money. The other was a very good friend so set up the beer fund so I'll cover drinks until that runs dry.

However the most I've seen was a new grad. He's a lovely bloke, was head of all the societies at uni, knew everyone studying CS at a very good uni. In his first year he referred all his uni friends, think he got around 15 or so successful referrals in that first year. My friend in HR processing then said it was more than her salary.

It helps that it is a good company where you'd tell little to join even with no referral, but the incentive makes you seem it that little bit more

Love Dalibor's work. I have the Puri clock, and it is a real statement piece that wows people. I didn't get it for that, I just got it half because I loved the aesthetic and half I wanted to support someone doing something that unique (one of those things I would personally like to do in a life after software).

On the plus side, Dalibor himself has been extremely helpful in answering questions and resolving minor issues with the clock (both software issues, both quickly resolved).

It is undoubtedly a hard to justify luxury item, but if on the fence you should buy it. It is more impressive in person than I imagined.

Often the new strategies top level players test on anonymised accounts are subtle tweaks in lines deep into / slightly beyond opening theory. Often these lines are slightly inferior to mainline but come with an edge due to the "surprise factor" making it harder for opponents to prepare. Each of these subtle tweaks will only arise in a small proportion of games (as only some of the time your opponent will play the line you want to test), so I imagine fingerprinting based on play style will still work relatively well.

Aaaaaand it's gone

Anecdotally, my uncle did this back in the late 80s to 2000s. Towards the end he would make AUD$400-800k a year (depending on how many jobs he took on) which was great money for someone who got into it in his early 20s after dropping out of high school.

The catch was the pressure of the environment, needing to be physically in peak shape (my uncle was an anomaly in lasting in the job until his late 40s), and the danger as he had several colleagues die on the job (worst I heard was due to the operators giving the wrong gas mix to the chamber). My uncle also definitely is a crazy man with a few screws loose, so that part checks out

For me it's not paying that's the issue, but rather having to sign up to an individual service and pay a monthly fee for every piece you read on every different website.

There really needs to be a Spotify for journalism and similar content. I know there are some attempts (apple news for example) but they haven't cracked it yet.

The average person skips paywalls for the same reason the average person used to pirate movies. It isn't about cost, but about the most convenient means of access

I think it is a by-product of their culture.

We recently had an SLA request to them that was for a paltry amount, nowhere near the damage they caused, less than 0.1% of our monthly spend. It was really just to gauge their process and how supportive they would be. Despite our account manager saying they would sort it, it was denied. They agreed we were impacted, they agreed they caused it, they agreed it met the duration, but the service team used a technicality in the wording of the SLA to get out of responsibility. I won't say much more to keep things somewhat anonymous.

Our account reps were on our side and are helping us escalate a complaint through on this.

We have several ex AWS folks in my team, and they said they weren't surprised. No one at AWS admits to mistakes as it costs promotions and puts you potentially on the chopping block. That's why the request was denied, that's why support is hard to deal with, that's why the status page is never updated quickly. They do a lot of things well and can be decent to deal with provided you understand they won't own up to their faults going into things

It looks like the article got the Australian implementation somewhat wrong.

Under cons, it says that voters have to rank all candidates on the ballot paper.

In reality you have a choice. You can either rank all, or if you are lazier you can just select your favourite candidate and then your first choice candidate's preferences will be used instead.

Also for some larger ballots (usually the senate with nearly 100 options) there is now a requirement to only rank say the top 10 or so for the ballot to count, so you don't need to number all 100.

This is one of the best features of the Australian system. If you want to do the basic effort you can just tick one box, but if you care about the ordering you can also make your preferences count if you so choose.

As an outsider looking in to American politics, I feel changing to preferential voting is the best bang for buck change to move away from extreme politics. Hopefully this catches on elsewhere.

This is a very interesting story that is (at least claimed to be) part of my family history.

My family stems from a group of travelling motorbike stunt riders back to the 20's. They did the wall of death and later the globe of death, and had to solve this problem in their bikes.

The family story is that we helped win the battle of Britain, as Miss Shilling read the about the idea in a motorcycle magazine that covered my families show. There is a lot of evidence on what Miss Shilling did, and that my family did the same modification to their bikes prior, but the lack of a link between the two leaves this as a half truth / half myth story

The way I have done it with both groups of friends and past partners is we rotate who chooses the activity, and that person pays that time. So if you can only be cheap and do picnic in the park that's fine, but if you want to spend more that's also ok. This works best if your friends (both poorer and richer) are not materialistic and don't keep count, and it needs to be a fairly steady group, 5 or less works best.

I have Crohn's disease. First symptoms 5 years ago, just before I was about to enter my final year of uni. For the first 3 months I was pretty much bed/bathroom bound, lost so much weight and looked so weak that a few friends / family at first thought I had cancer. Next 6 months after I took off uni, drugs were only semi effective and side effects meant I couldn't do any thinking without getting a headache (i.e. I could watch a movie, but I couldn't play video games). Things then got gradually better up until now where normally I don't notice it, but it does flare up occasionally (every 6 months or so).

What I do:

1. Identify what triggers it.

Doctors don't know what to tell me apart from "take these pills / shots" as it is unique to every individual. However from trial and error I have found these key triggers: lack of sleep, lack of exercise, certain food choices, excessive alcohol, stress. Small slip ups on any off these are fine, but continual abuse over periods of days / weeks and it will flare up again. Nearly every flareup since I worked these things out can be traced back to a change in life patterns. Moving house, going on holidays, start of Covid (and closure of the gyms) etc. I've worked out the triggers and now I need to address them, which is easier said than done over a timespan of years.

Note for anyone who has a friend / family member with it: Initially, I tried everything under the sun with a possibility of working, and the only thing to fix things up were the drugs. Now I can manage drug free, but all those methods did sweet F-all until it was controlled with drugs (but every case is different). Send them a link to whatever method you want, and then never bring it up again. It shocked me how many people who thought they were doctors came out of the woodworks offering me crackpot theories and then were offended when either I didn't do it or it didn't work (oh you weren't strict enough, you didn't give it long enough). For everyone's sake, provide the information then shut up.

2. Address the triggers.

Food: Avoid overconsumption of dairy, wheat, sugar, alcohol (wine / beer are a lot worse than spirits, white spirits are the go to although I don't like them). A bit here and there is fine and in a normal week I'll have all of them, but it is when you are chaining days of them and they dominate your diet it becomes bad. Also avoid overeating in one sitting, as putting your stomach at max capacity seems to also be a trigger.

Sleep is obvious. Min of 8 hours, 8.5-9 daily is best

Exercise frequently, at least 3x a week. Cardio is ok, but it seems weight training helps the most. Of the list I feel this is the most infrequently mentioned by others, but has helped me a ton.

Stress: I deliberately took a job with a company that had a reputation of respecting work life balance. It is still a demanding environment, but you can choose how hard to push yourself. I try to keep to an 8 hour day but maximise how much I do in that time, and completely switch off after. I turned down a FAANG offer to work here, assuming I would be trading career / financial success for lower stress, but it has turned out better on all fronts (career, pay, stress) which was a nice bonus.

3. Plan ahead

Although I have it under control, I definitely feel like I have a lot less energy than my friends. I just feel my body using my energy reserves to constantly fight this thing and it is fatiguing, and is getting slightly worse every year. I don't want to be working when I'm 60, and have no idea if disaster will strike earlier.

Financially I'm focused on getting to a point where I can retire in around 10 years time, FIRE style. I love my work and plan to keep doing it whilst I still love it, but I need that backup plan covered. Previously I have had to take long periods off to rest up and heal, and during that time I did nothing remotely work related, didn't write a single line of code. I need to be prepared for that happening again.

Plan B is company stock options paying off which is looking more probably than not in ~4 years or so, and would make retirement more comfortable, but I'm not banking on a plan B.

4. Give up control

Control everything you can, and be indifferent to everything you can't. I wasted so much energy early on being angry about how things were, rather than using that energy to fix what I could. Easier said than done however.

5. (Bonus point) Get off the internet

Back when I was diagnosed I found various different groups online that I thought would be good to get some answers and see what other peoples experiences are like. Bad move. They are like news channels, reporting mainly the bad side of the experiences. Don't let your disease consume your life, let alone other people's experience of it.

That's all the advice I have. Bit late in the thread to be commenting, but hopefully a braindump will help someone.

Doesn't cut the mustard

This assumes OP gets a fair price for their stock. Often that doesn't happen on private markets, especially if the company doesn't provide enough information to allow outsiders to make an informed decision

I just moved out of Sydney to somewhere regional (not rural). NBN installation is turning into a joke (probably a month or two off due to tree roots growing through a cable) so I have turned to 4g. Telstra now do 200gb a month for $75, which has allowed me to stay here working (work only data usage is 100-150gb a month). Didn't think I'd be grateful to Telstra ever in my life, but here I am.

I clicked on the link thinking it would be someone being offended over nothing as tends to be my stance. But no, that is too far. I wonder what the culture is like such that anyone thought committing that, with your name on the commit, was a good idea.

I didn't read it like that at all. As stated in the article, the offending bit was the last two lines. "If you haven't tried it, I suggest you do" is the smug, condescending jab that was completely unnecessary. It is inflammatory for no benefit.

The start of the response was perfectly fine and I did not feel the author took offence to it.

700 person company, half of which are software engineers. Yes our CTO is extremely hands on, and one of the most insanely gifted developers I've ever met. He was the first hire at the company and has led engineering since.

This works as he is a strong, opinionated, intelligent, yet empathetic person who leads the charge on our engineering standards from the front line. He and the org have realised the problems that come with this approach, so have a head of engineering and the engineering leadership board (including the CTO) that fulfill the other functions of a CTO, such as the people management, resource planning, general process and procedure.

This leads to a great situation where we have a gun of a technical hands on CTO that rallies the troops, but the other typical CTO functions aren't neglected either

Funny timing, I just picked up my first pair today. 24 years old.

Last 2.5 years I'd been sick, and one of the medications I had to take on and off was prednisone, an anti-inflammatory steroid. Although it was a temporary miracle for my problem, the long list of side effects are less "these things might happen" and more "pray that not all of these things happen". Amongst others, 2 side effects were general brain fog / headaches and poor vision.

I got my eyes tested 2 years ago when I was first on it and the prescription needed was so slight I was told not to bother and live with it. This time around I had the headaches again, and attributed it to the drug. After realising they weren't going away as much as I would expect whilst tapering off the drug, I got my eyes checked again and this time my eyesight was significantly worse than before. I should also mention that I was having a hard time reading anything illuminated at night, so I just assumed that was something that glasses wouldn't solve.

I picked up my glasses 2 hours ago, and whilst I have a bit of a headache adjusting to it, I can't believe how clear everything is. Feels like I have superpowered vision. I took a walk to the park and looked across the bay to a mass of houses and apartment buildings. Just looking at it gave me a headache because there was so much detail at such a far distance it felt like my brain was struggling to process it all at once.

Best of all, I can now use my computer again without headaches. I'd been putting off going to work until the headaches resolved, but was surprised that my distance glasses made everything on my computer perfectly sharp, despite only sitting ~1m away from a 34" monitor.

Interesting thing is that I am told that I may not need glasses once I am off prednisone, however I suspect I will as I can't recall seeing this clearly in years. Probably will just have to get the prescription changed in a few months.

Read this last week. There were lots of individual things I disliked about the book, yet still thoroughly enjoyed it as a whole. Quite a fun story

Once the children discovered the estate’s money was being used to pay the bank’s lawyers in the legal fight, they asked for the bank to stop using the account. JPMorgan did not comply. Eventually, the account was drained of all but $100, just enough to keep the account open. Then JPMorgan made its own novel legal move. The estate, as administered by the bank, took out a loan, from JPMorgan, for more than $900,000. The bank, in other words, loaned itself money, indebting the estate in the process.

Wow, just wow. Usually when I read articles about an investment bank doing something dodgy, I can play devil's advocate and talk it through from their point of view. But this time I am struggling to do that. So many things were done that were not just morally wrong, but legally too. I struggle to believe there was no one at JP who didn't point this out.

Just picked up the book. A friend and I are looking to start our own software dev agency in 2017, which will probably be closer to consulting work in the beginning. I look forward to giving your book a read.

The return package has a label indicating it was sent from that town which is in the Ukraine

You don't have to stick on Kaggle forever. It is a fantastic resource for learning to apply ML techniques to real life data sets. Spend some time getting good at doing that and then move onto your own domain

The problem with that argument is that not everyone is OK with living a bare minimum cost of living life style. Also rewarding yourself for earning more can give you motivation to progress further.

I recommend fixing your spending at a %-age of your post tax income at a maximum. For me it is 50%, but that is on the conservative side for most people. I don't always spend 50%, but that is the max. I feel it is a good compromise between preparing for the future and rewarding yourself in the present

The first hint is there are lots of little grammar errors in the post. Mainly missing 'a' or 'the'. Nothing bad enough to make it unreadable or give ambiguous meaning, however enough to realise English is probably not the writers first language.

The second hint for me is the sentence structure of the first paragraph. Every sentence only has one fact / idea in it, however a native speaker would be more likely to string those ideas together into fewer sentences.

Couldn't the consumer deduce that the better ROI is to keep the money as cash (or some other liquid investment) for 2-3 years and then spend it on solar in 2 years time? My expectation of future prices definitely affects how I spend my money today.

I still remember doing this in high school. Well, not me, but those who were in the most competitive races would dig up the dirt a bit and use those holes, everyone in the less competitive races would just start upright.

Not sure if relevant to this issue, but Sydney is currently being hit with one of the biggest storms I can remember in the past few years. Probably not crazy enough to take down a DC, but might be a contributing factor in this outage.

Thanks for the link. I'm excited that Crohns seems to be an area with promising active research so we might have it solved in the next few decades. For me personally, as my condition is only mild / moderate, I believe I should be able to get it under control without the more experimental methods, although will always consider them when appropriate. Between my father (who is a doctor) and my mother (who is ... open minded), no potential treatment seems to go unanalysed in my household.