I hope the author is reading this thread.
What struck me was this line: "Family time bores me because I could otherwise be doing amazing things".
I felt like this for a long time. I was in a long-term relationship with an amazing woman, yet I spent my free time working or thinking about all the "amazing" things I could have been working on. Up to the point where she left me.
Family time is the one thing you should never consider a bore or a chore.