Postgres is my favourite thing, but I find it's prohibitively costly when bootstrapping something that is lean and frugal.
I end up with a mixture of serverless storage like DynamoDB, S3, DuckDB on S3, and SQLite.
Am I crazy? How can one have a decent Postgres and not pay at least $100/mo (yes, when I say frugal I mean really frugal ... think solo founder that likes to stay on free tiers haha) -- I am aware of Neon/Supabase, but last time I tried them they ended up becoming a tightly coupled annoying dependency after scale that defeated the cost savings as they grew in costs and we ended up migrating to Aurora / RDS lol
EDIT: I'm aware of the self-hosted path but I find configuring the above things faster/cheaper in terms of my admin hours than the self hosted postgres db. Maybe I just suck at being a DBA or need better education on it, that said, I have AI now so I should give it a chance again as it's been a minute since I created a fresh thing