Kernel oomkiller is useless for the desktop. It only cares about kernel survival. There's user space oom options, like oomd, earlyoom ... but I'm not sure any heuristic really knows what user space program to clobber.
Resource control via cgroupsv2 sounds better for both desktop and server use cases, differing by what processes receive minimum resources. But IO isolation remains elusive. Some suggest a database of hardware capabilities, I wonder if a cheap estimator of throughput and latencies could do this dynamically.
Anyway, I'm not convinced user space should care about or rely on the kernel oomkiller. Well before it even considers the situation human interactivity with the system was lost.