It is truly disheartening to see you'd been downvoted when I came into this thread.
The truth is, the OP's domain was probably considered to be in a bad "neighborhood" because his mail server had been compromised for spamming purposes at one point or another. It's dreadfully easy to either misconfigure a mail server or to end up with your mail server compromised.
Regardless, it's easy to hate on Google, especially in a primarily entrepreneurial forum where those posting are often trying to solve tough problems with far fewer resources. But Google is solving tough problems, even when you feel you've been wronged by an algorithm. Gmail has had an unbelievably successful spam filter for years, forcing the competition to rise to the occasion and match it, to the point where people forget how serious a problem spam is. It's not trivial, and it doesn't mean there's a democratic crisis when your e-mails end up in a spam bin. Especially when it's quite likely because your mail server was compromised.