Why ‘Ok’ Buttons in Dialog Boxes Work Best on the Right 14 years ago
"If you’re an inexperienced designer who doesn’t trust your own judgment, then user testing is probably your best bet. But if you’re a knowledgeable and experienced designer who can think about problems from the user’s perspective, then you can solve this problem through design analysis."
... I really like the `either go with me or your an idiot` push... false dilemma anyone?