If someone has complaints about “benchmaxxing”, please ask them to contribute a better benchmark!
I don't think I'd go that far!
When someone says a model has been benchmaxxed, what they really mean is that it performs better in benchmarks compared to their real world experience. That's a real thing, I've certainly experienced it with some models.
...my take is that some things in life just resist quantitative measurements. Who is the best job candidate? What is the best programming language? Add AI models to the pile.