Here's a good reason why you should get rid of things you don't use.

http://nat.org/blog/2009/05/murder-your-darlings/

by wizardofoz • 17 years ago

54 13 17 years ago

pg• 17 years ago

"Murder your darlings" actually means something more specific than that. It doesn't just mean not to be attached to passages you like, but to be especially suspicious of them.

ivankirigin• 17 years ago

Interestingly, that's the 3rd variant of the phrase i've heard in as many days. Perhaps those using it should be obligated to rephrase it ;)

cracki• 17 years ago

using -> ignoring

obligated -> doomed

rephrase -> repeat

huh?

jamesbritt• 17 years ago

For folks curious about the origin of the phrase, "Murder your darlings": http://www.bartleby.com/190/12.html

mahmud• 17 years ago

Or in "the parlance of our times"[1] "The things you own end up owning you"[2]

[1] The Big Lebowski

[2] Fight Club

mixmax• 17 years ago

"The things you own end up owning you"

- Tyler Durden, Fight Club

catch404• 17 years ago

I was wondering where I'd seen this before - It was picked up on planet.gnome.org. :)

erikstarck• 17 years ago

You should check out the Bruce Sterling speech from Reboot11. He talks about categorizing everything you own into four categories: beautiful stuff, stuff that you have a strong emotional connection to, tools that are absolutely needed to live a better life and "the rest". Everything in "the rest" category you should get rid of. Video of speech is here: http://video.reboot.dk/video/486788/bruce-sterling-reboot-11

edw519• 17 years ago

You're preaching to the choir. Tell my SO.

bretthoerner• 17 years ago

http://diveintomark.org/archives/2008/11/03/the-pursuit-of-h...

The pursuit of happiness (Mark Pilgrim)

1. Stop buying stuff you don’t need

2. Pay off all your credit cards

3. Get rid of all the stuff that doesn’t fit in your house/apartment (storage lockers, etc.)

4. Get rid of all the stuff that doesn’t fit on the first floor of your house (attic, garage, etc.)

5. Get rid of all the stuff that doesn’t fit in one room of your house

6. Get rid of all the stuff that doesn’t fit in a suitcase

7. Get rid of all the stuff that doesn’t fit in a backpack

8. Get rid of the backpack

jimfl• 17 years ago

Another good reason you should get rid of things you don't use: They're flammable.

spaghetti• 17 years ago

My favorite method of getting rid of possesions is just sell the 10% you use the least. Then repeat on the remaining stuff. The first iteration is pretty easy. Once you actually experience how little you miss the items the 2nd, 3rd, 4th etc iterations come naturally.

HeyLaughingBoy• 17 years ago

Maybe it's just me, but I can't relate to a feeling of "guilt" simply because I haven't used something in a while. I'm not attached to my stuff, I just don't care as long as the place doesn't look cluttered.

The only reason I have to toss stuff (that's paid for) is if it takes up too much space. And I have acres of storage room.

Here's a good reason why you should get rid of things you don't use.

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