Ask HN: How to network effectively at conferences?

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by jackkinsella • 15 years ago

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I'm going to a conference next week with the intention of generating possible leads for freelance work and meeting potential co-founders.

Has anyone any advice on how to best go about this? I'm looking for good networking tips.

derrida2• 15 years ago

Saying "Hello" to people works well.

jackkinsella3• 15 years ago

That's not exactly helpful. I wouldn't have expected that kind of sarcasm on Hacker News. There is an art and science to networking effectively and the point of my question was to tap into the collective knowledge of this forum for help.

phenning2• 15 years ago

I didn't quite understand if you are the freelancer or if you are the non-tech founder looking for a tech co-founder. I'm a single non-tech founder of a startup looking for a tech co-founder and I've read a lot lately about how to connect. If you are like me, I can tell you what I've learned.

derrida2• 15 years ago

I am sorry. I was not being sarcastic. I am surprised how many people don't give the basic "Hello" when they make eye contact with someone a go. When was the last time you said Hello to someone you did not know, without any pre-existing reason for contacting?

acknickulous• 15 years ago

One thing I've learned is you need to have a 'mission'. You have to want to do X and describe yourself as someone who does X. If you are just wandering around telling people, "I'm a programmer...and like to do web stuff" etc. it's too vague. Definitely have an idea/project you are working on and present yourself as working on it.

I guess it seems obvious--but for awhile I used to just float around at conferences just looking for interesting opportunities....but people won't really reveal them to you if they don't know what you do.

triviatise• 15 years ago

1) if there is a list of attendees, try to setup meetings in advance via email. 2) have a very short message, just a couple of sentences for what you do. If you do two things, you really need to focus on just one of them. 3) after you meet someone write down, on their card, key points of the discussion. If you meet enough people you simply wont remember them later 4) be genuinely interested in what they have to say (listen) 5) you will need to be proactive about meeting people 6) Follow up with emails afterwards. 7) try to process the cards every day for that day. 8) dont get drunk and lose all the cards

I can meet about 20 people a day.

SoftwarePatent• 15 years ago

Don't let yourself spend too much time with any single person. Say, "I guess we should both keep working the room", exchange business cards, and move on.

bdclimber142• 15 years ago

I wonder why someone down-voted this. I believe this is a great piece of advice. At events, I frequently get stuck talking to people who aren't beneficial to me (and I'm not beneficial to them), and loose opportunities with others.

I typically just say "Hey, well it was great talking with you..." and it ends naturally.

ig1• 15 years ago

Not really relevant in your case but I found giving a talk a good option :)

After I gave a talk at an unconference I ended up with a queue of about a dozen people wanting to talk to me.

martinshen• 15 years ago

If you're shy... and if it's appropriate.. wear a shirt or sign that says you're a developer. Many people who go to conferences are looking to chat and find developers.

russjhammond• 15 years ago

You can certainly do as some suggest and have a target list, which I have done before, but find to be very exhausting. I personally prefer all the casual connections.

For example at SXSW this year I got more business cards from people that I shared rickshaw rides with then any other way. The same goes for cab rides or shuttle rides you share with people.

You are stuck with each other for 5 minutes so just strike up a conversation. Yes its a little more random and less targeted but it is also more natural, so even if they don't need you they may pass your card to someone else who does because you weren't that guy.

Also, if its a busy conference or one that essentially takes over a whole hotel or area like SXSW where pretty much everyone you pass by is at the conference, just hang out on a couch or bench in the hotel lobby. Tons of people will come by and ask if the seat is taken. Kindly let them know it is not and strike up a friendly conversation like you would in the cab or shuttle.

bdclimber142• 15 years ago

One trick I do is to have an inbox and outbox for your business cards, e.g. left and right pockets.

I've embarrassingly given someone a card I had received prior. Mixing received cards with your own makes for awkward fumbling as you pull out a business card to hand someone.

jackkinsella3• 15 years ago

I've done some further research and found:

1) Have quantifiable goals - e.g. give 20 elevator pitches/day & get business cards.

2) Follow the conference hashtag on Twitter and tweet during and after the conference to gain exposure.

3) Arrive early for pre-conference networking.

4) Drink lots of water, try to exercise and get some sleep so as to keep your energy high.

5) Remember that sessions etc. are a lower priority than meeting people - especially if the sessions are recorded.

6) Scribble down some details about each conversation so that it's easier to reconnect in follow ups.

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