The secret to networking - be yourself online/in person

http://blog.monicaobrien.com/the-secret-to-networking-well-be-yourself/

by wallflower • 16 years ago

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pmichaud• 16 years ago

The article is pretty trite, but one gem that's worth repeating, is that if you want to be popular, then be "raw". Make yourself vulnerable. Share unpopular opinions.

delano• 16 years ago

It's the Eddie Murphy school of networking.

peterwwillis• 16 years ago

To paraphrase Bill Cosby:

I said to a guy, I said, "Tell me, what is it about being yourself that makes it so wonderful?", and he said, "Well, it intensifies your personality." I said, "Yes, but what if you're an asshole?"

danskil• 16 years ago

"Just be yourself" This is pretty similar to what i remember reading as a teenager when looking for advice on the opposite sex. Though no one ever really told me, how to be me.

There are lots of me's, the one that stays up late watching south park, and the one that enjoys a fine glass of wine. Many of my friends took this phrase as a ticket to be slovenly, thinking that they would attract others by "being themselves". While the advice is sound, it shouldn't be taken as an absolute law.

sp332• 16 years ago

It's a call to integrity. Don't make up new personas for different social situations. You should be the same "you" in every situation.

larrykubin• 16 years ago

Here's an excerpt from Robert Solomon's Existentialism (1974) book. He was one of my Philosophy professors at UT-Austin before he passed away:

"What does one do? 'Be yourself!' An empty script; myself sounds like a mere word that points at 'me' along with the camera. One wants to 'let things happen,' but in self-conscious reflection nothing ever 'just happens.' One seizes a plan (one chooses a self)"

dctoedt• 16 years ago

Kinda like Little League parents yelling to their kid, "Be a hitter, Johnny!" Huh?

jakez• 16 years ago

"So just be yourself already. It’s that simple."

It actually applies to everything in general. It's that simple.

ErrantX2• 16 years ago

and it's not actually all that simple

ErrantX2• 16 years ago

The title is trite - and fairly useless - advice. But the article actually contains some much more useful tips.

tbone28• 16 years ago

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