Rewrote my previous comment, as muddling up both cases as a single obtuse analogy was a mistake on my part.
But can't we say that we have both a moral and an ethical obligation to protect our nontechnical users or our fellow developers from mistakes, lack of training or in the worst case maleficence ?
The business decision of using an externally hosted backend services, what ever they may be must take into account what data goes into it, out of it and how it's computed on by both you and the provider w.r.t. who the real end user is and how the data is going to live on.
And here I think is the crux of the problem, those questions and their solutions are generally very hard when put into practice (I dont have a silver bullet, or even a something vaguely resembling a mold for it) so it's not very conducive to being a "Fast" company.
For example, being European, it scares me a great deal that companies, schools and the public sector are increasingly punting the business decision of "how to handle email" to "let's use gmail".
That in no way takes into account my concerns (and often I do not have a choice in the matter of using these services) since my mail, and by extension a large part of my life is being handed to a for profit US corporation who "does no evil".
I use gmail privately though, since I did this particular cost/benefit and decided that i dont really care if google reads my mailing list traffic...