narshlob

Not to start a flame war or anything, but have you looked into Ruby on Rails? Aside from the fact that you need a hosting provider that supports RoR, it's a great platform to get things moving quickly.

What are your ideas for a startup?

I upload to YouTube and make it so only people that have the URL can access the videos, meaning they don't show up in search results. You can also make the videos private so you have to specify who can view them (25 max). Not exactly what you seem to be looking for, but it's an idea