I could probably be characterized as a social scientist, at least a behavioral scientist.
What you're saying is probably part of it, although in my experience that criticism can be leveled as much, if not more, at wet-lab-type biologists who eschew all but the most minimal stats.
With the social sciences, though, there's another phenomenon at play, which is that the phenomena are so abstract often that there's not really a good theoretical reason to assume anything in particular. And if that's the case, because the normal is the entropy-maximizing distribution, you're actually better off assuming that rather than some other distribution. You could also use nonparametric stats, but that has its own advantages and disadvantages.
Bias-variance dilemma and all that.
The truth is, it's hard to beat the normal even when it's wrong. And if you subscribe to the inferential philosophy that every model is wrong, you're better off being conservatively wrong, which implies a normal.
I'm not saying everything should be assumed to be normal. But unless things are (1) obviously super non-normal, or (2) you have some very strongly justified model that produces a non-normal distribution, you're probably best off using a normal if you're going to go parametric. And I think those two conditions are met much more often than we like to admit.
The normal distribution is kind of over-maligned, I think. I started my stats career being enamoured of rigorously nonparametric stats, and still am (esp. exact tests, bootstrapping/permutation-based inference, and empirical likelihood), but have grown to strongly appreciate normal distributions (or whatever maxent distribution is appropriate).