Are these obscenities received every waking moment, or only during the game? Do they know your real name, your home phone number, your address, or just your avatar name? Are they threatening your online personality, or threatening you?
And most importantly, can you avoid these threats by logging out of a game? Or are these people calling your home after you've turned off your computer at night?
Please don't trivialize these threats by comparing them to in-game banter.
Your last point would hold if we only had the mental capacity to pity one person at a time, in which case would Rebecca Black really win over, say, victims of child sex trafficking?