If you are looking for a computational graph toolkit that is based on clean C++ go for Dynet.
It is very complete. Similar to pytorch (which borrowed some ideas from Dynet) and backed up by top academia (not big tech, hence its lower profile). It has a python wrapper as well, as everything nowadays.
If you are into deep learning for sequence to sequence (machine translation) Marian is also C++ centered. Fastest MT around. Complete (transformer and the like), extendable. Not that reading friendly from what I have heard.
Disclaimer: Python type of guy here.