Can I pay someone to monitor my AWS deploy and make sure it's healthy?
Yes. There are consulting shops that will do this, as will many of the monitoring tools listed in the thread (though these tools will not fix the problem for you). Broadly speaking, there is a cost associated with this, as well as the cost associated with your downtime. If the cost of your downtime (reputational risk, SLA credits, etc) outweighs the cost of hiring someone to cut your MTTR to 5 minutes (assuming you can playbook out all of the relevant scenarios) + provides some value in stress reduction, then you should do this. If you've been doing this a while, you can math it out. In what experience I've had though, an outside person is unlikely to be able to fix an "unknown unknown", they just won't know your environment as well as you will.
All that said, one hour of service interruption a year is still better than most.