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In apartments, there is a mutual understanding of common elements and that people are living in a shared space. There is also a mediation process through the building management and the board.

In the burbs, is is a wild west with no mediation/arbitration process. There is a huge sense of entitlement on both sides - "this is my property and I can do what I want" vs. "you are encroaching on my property/rights and I will complain/behave passive aggressively about everything".

Everything you mentioned are issues in suburbs as well - often more so:

- Neighbors dog in the backyard barking all damn day.

- Neighbor throwing BBQ/party in the yard w/ music, and loud laughing/talking late into the night.

- Kids yelling/laughing/screaming.

- Teenagers revving cars up and down the streets

- Lawnmower at 6 in the morning

Trust me, I've lived in both. Apartments have a process to handle unacceptable behavior and disputes. Suburbs are way worse - if you are looking for more private space, you need to go rural where houses sit on large lots.

I live in Toronto and we are already in stage 3 of reopening. Restaurants have allowed indoor dining and gyms have started to reopen. Movie theatres are also open.

Streets are bustling and patios are pretty full again.

I think this whole thing is overblown and we will return to normal sooner than people think.

I live in Toronto where new cases have pretty much dropped off. Things are more or less back to normal - we just allowed indoor dining at restaurants, the streets are starting to come back to life, patios are bustling, etc.

There is light at the end of the tunnel :)

The only major difference is that offices are still empty - this actually turned out to be a good thing though - less traffic, biking and walking around is really nice.