Your thinking here is pretty close to right, but it sounds like you may be a bit confused about the difference between "standard deviation" and "standard error". They're closely related, but it's very important to keep them distinct.
In your example, you have a random variable X that comes from some distribution parameterized by its mean m and its variance s^2. We can write this random variable as x ~ ?(m=1, s^2=1). Continuing your example, suppose we sample a sequence of n draws of this random variable X = [x1, x2, ... xn] and then take their sample mean f(X) = 1/n * sum(X). The value of the sample mean will vary depending on the sample we drew, so we want to know the properties of the sampling distribution of f(X), particularly as we increase n. The standard error is the standard deviation of the sampling distribution of f(X).