Knowing When It’s Time to Move On

https://medium.com/lessons-learned/6c5b8f6e6908

by dohertyjf • 13 years ago

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siliconc0w• 13 years ago

Mobile gaming start-ups - creating a more optimized Skinner Box one derivative app at a time. Run and Don't look back.

austinz3• 13 years ago

I hope someone writes a "I've decided to move on from 'finding myself' and get a nice job at a big prestigious software company" article, as a way to close the loop.

zxcvvcxz• 13 years ago

Would this be a bad thing? I'm considering this.

austinz3• 13 years ago

I don't think it would be a bad thing. It would definitely bring balance and another perspective, which would be in my opinion much more helpful to someone contemplating their life direction.

rrhoover3• 13 years ago

I hope to write that essay in the coming weeks (although I'm looking at smaller startups).

dohertyjf2• 13 years ago

It's an interesting thought and I wonder how many of us who make money on the Internet and spend our days working for smaller companies will actually end up working for corporations. But, we should also note that you can keep working on side projects while working for a big corporation. This also is not the end of the world, depending on who you are. Some, that will kill their soul. For others, it's a great way to have stability and also get to work on what you love.

That said, it's not the end of the world. A big company can afford many things - incredible monetary backing to ship new things, a large support ring, and also stability. I've often railed on the choices of our parents to live in suburbia, but the older I get I realize that I could see myself living in a decent sized house with some land.

Thanks to Ryan for writing the post and getting this discussion started.

austinz3• 13 years ago

I always thought to some extent, that working at a large company (under very particular circumstances) could provide you with the resources and connections necessary to work on a side project/future startup at your leisure, without having to deal with the pressure of rapidly-draining funding or extraordinary levels of stress before you're ready.

Some big tech companies even provide support for people who want to do this (of course, under certain constraints, and to a certain extent).

Then again, if you're comfortable at a big company and working on something as a hobby or side project, the impetus to get it done and move quickly isn't there as well. Plus, a steady, large income produces a sort of complacency and tendency towards a more expensive lifestyle that would be hard to sustain once you leave again. So I guess it's a double-edged sword.

Also, if you do this, it has to be at a company where the environment and the work you do isn't toxic, but rather something you enjoy. While I was at another company doing work I really didn't like, I thought to myself that I'd compensate by working on a side project. I was only fooling myself, because when I got home I was so bored, tired, and frustrated that I had no energy to do anything technical. Different personality types might cope differently, though.

mathattack• 13 years ago

I hope that when it does get written, they don't make so many narcissistic allusions to "As you know from reading my prior body of work..."

amberes• 13 years ago

I feel his pain... unfortunately, I've got a family to feed. 15-20 years earlier, knowing what I know now, I wouldn't give it a 2nd thought.

ibejoeb• 13 years ago

Sorry to go OT, but does anyone have any tips for making Medium tolerable? It can't be just me. Half the time nothing shows up. When it does, it takes 10 seconds. What is so tricky about black text on a white background? I'm genuinely interested.

ryandrake• 13 years ago

This one, and yesterday's Google one. Honestly, I'm not sure I understand these posts...

* "I'm leaving my job because I'm underpaid." = I get it

* "I'm leaving my job because my boss is an ass." = I get it

* "I'm leaving my job for a more prestigious company." = I get it

* "I'm leaving my job because I lost passion and am not learning." = ???

If you want passion, try volunteering or get a hobby. If you want to learn, there are plenty of opportunities to do so outside of work. These are problems that can be solved without jeopardizing your ability to put food on the table.

Introspection is great for its own sake, but to me it's a little weird to mix it all up with your employment. Work is a financial transaction/relationship. You trade your labor for compensation. When did it become something we have to love and wrap up so much of our self-image into?

spacemanaki• 13 years ago

When did it become something we have to love and wrap up so much of our self-image into?

When we started spending 50, 60 hours a week at work. Even at 40 hours a week, it's exhausting to try to find any real time to devote to hobbies and "extracurricular" learning outside of work. If you feel like you're stagnating, feeling like you're wasting those 40 hours of life every week, why stay, just because "work is a financial transaction" ?

jfoutz• 13 years ago

This is absolutely it. When you're happy and engaged, it's easy to burn through 60 hour weeks, year after year. But when that passion starts to fade 12 hour days are an express ticket to burnout.

ChristianMarks• 13 years ago

My stepfather had the same attitude. I stopped talking with him.

rrhoover3• 13 years ago

You're absolutely right that hobbies and activities outside of work can be incredibly rewarding. But to dedicate a large portion of your life to something you're not passion about, is truly sad.

I made the decision to leave pragmatically and like Ellen who shared her story leaving Google, it wasn't rushed. I'm fortunate to be in a position where I can willingly leave and I realize many others don't have that opportunity.

cenhyperion• 13 years ago

Every single article has a story similar to the one in this one of the guy working at 2AM trying to ship the product.

When you work 80 hours a week you're going to burn out. It doesn't matter how good of a programmer you are, it doesn't matter how dedicated you are, it doesn't matter how motivated you are. It's not sustainable.

The most talented people know how to budget out their time so they don't burn themselves out.

mw67• 13 years ago

persistence my friend is the most important asset you can count on.

Knowing When It’s Time to Move On

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