I'm still alive after my startup failed. This is how I felt

by tresew • 13 years ago

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dougfarre• 13 years ago

I'm curious about the project.

tapatio• 13 years ago

You sound like an old co-founder of mine. When he latched onto something, be it developing code or burning a DVD collection, he went all in, and dropped everything else for extended periods of time. While I do this at times as well, I think it's best to live a balanced lifestyle (http://www.pathways.cu.edu.eg/subpages/training_courses/Well...). I believe you can have a family and take vacations and still build a killer startup. Look at famous people like Bill Gates, Warren Buffet, the CEOs of many fortune 500 companies - many are married with kids - and yet still very successful in business.

JDSD• 13 years ago

For some people the hyper-focus is essential to their wellbeing and sense of purpose. I can understand why you feel depressed for putting your all into something and having it not work the way you had imagined.

Sure you may have lost out on some relationships, and sure you may not be able to get that time back, but it definitely wasn't time wasted, or no life.

Imagine what it must feel like laying on your deathbed, full of regret, knowing you never "went" for it. Playing it safe is the surest way to mediocrity after all.

Try not to fixate on the failure, as it's really your informal education. Take what you've learnt from this failure, and apply it to the next endeavor, whatever it may be.

Always move forward. Keep your head held high. Be a good person. You'll be okay.

gopalv• 13 years ago

I feel for you, but it's not the end yet.

There are two important things you can do.

1) Looks like you wrote some cool code, so at least "github" it, so that you have a resume item & some cred when you want just a salary job.

2) Talk to people. They won't understand, but they'll occasionally do something good for you. Maybe a pancake dinner cooked or late night "dinner for losers" on a saturday night.

I worked on something for 5 years to drop it completely and move on - was heartbreaking but that CVS repo got me a job and indirectly, paid my bills.

I'm still alive after my startup failed. This is how I felt

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