Ask HN: Self Hosting an Email Server?

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39174199

by fruktmix • 2 years ago

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It's quite obvious that people HN community loves self-hosting stuff so maybe you guys can help me out here.

I want to be able to send and receive emails from my custom domains but not pay 5-49$ a month in doing so.

What options do I got?

Saw these alternatives but I don't know what you guys recommend.

- https://www.cloudron.io/index.html

- https://cyberpanel.net/

- https://www.hmailserver.com/

- https://wildduck.email/

- Sendmail and dovecot on a (Rasberry PI) RPi

- https://www.makeuseof.com/make-your-own-raspberry-pi-email-server/

To clarify, I don' t mind the UI looking like it's a website from 1998. I just want to be able to read and send.

jruohonen2• 2 years ago

Cannot recommend: full-time work nowadays; maybe it tells something about email and its protocols too.

fruktmix10• 2 years ago

Yeah, I've seen it's a big hassle but I reckon these open source alternatives helps?

jruohonen2• 2 years ago

Yeah, I've seen it's a big hassle

A huge hassle, in fact. Even with robust exchangers, like Postix, and careful all around hardening, you are going to get a fight of your life.

necovek2• 2 years ago

Is it? My mail continues to work after initially set up long time ago (decade or two): sure, some of my emails end up in spam for new gmail recipients, and figuring that out would be a lot of work, but still not full time work.

op00to4• 2 years ago

“Some of my emails end up in spam for new gmail recipients”

You don’t see a problem with this?

DamonHD3• 2 years ago

I've been hosting my email since the 90s, and it still basically just works.

Currently sendmail and dovecot on a (off-grid) RPi that I use for a bunch of other services too.

fruktmix10• 2 years ago

Looks like people are saying the opposite.

foofie2• 2 years ago

Cannot recommend: full-time work nowadays;

Interesting. Care to elaborate on what makes self-hosting email such a time-consuming task? Most of the replies you're getting seem to suggest it's not that hard to pull off.

op00to4• 2 years ago

IP address reputation.

getwiththeprog• 2 years ago

If you are interested in it, go for it.

Super easy to set up, quite difficult to harden if you run across any problems.

You can always transfer your custom domain to another host when you want to.

fruktmix10• 2 years ago

I listed a few alternatives in the OG description. What do you recommend?

nhatcher• 2 years ago

I have used cloudron, it's pretty good.

op00to4• 2 years ago

You will have nothing but misery self hosting email. If you care about your email, you know the reliable options.

Source: ran “self hosted” email using open source tools for 12,000 person university campus for many years.

nijave3• 2 years ago

I've used postfix+dovecot for a while and it's fairly easy. Main issue is you need a static IP (not on a consumer/residential subnet) with reputation. To be safe, you really need a /24 subnet since some blacklists will lost entire net blocks if they get enough complaints.

Even with DKIM, SPF, DMARC, and a PTR record, it was quite difficult to get Outlook/Microsoft to accept emails without them going to spam. I think they have some sort of form you can submit but it took lots of tries

If you don't have a static IP, you have to pay for a relay.

MaKey• 2 years ago

I've been running mailcow [1] on a Hetzner cloud server for a few years and am pretty happy with it.

[1] https://mailcow.email

super256• 2 years ago

+1 for mailcow. Running it for half a decade on a vultr box.

VoodooJuJu• 2 years ago

I see people saying self-hosting email is difficult - I disagree. If you know what a DNS record is, how to SSH into a server, and how to run a docker container, then self-hosting email will be easy for you. Postfix and Mailcow make it quite simple these days.

The problem with self-hosting is that even after setting up everything correctly, you will still likely run into delivery issues with your outgoing mail because your IP doesn't have the right reputation, i.e. it's not associated with a globocorp. What will follow is a cat and mouse game of contacting the various big email providers and asking/begging/demanding them to whitelist your IP so that they don't send your mail directly to spam. The responses to these whitelist requests vary between being ignored and being temporarily whitelisted.

Many consider this to be a losing game and give up self-hosting email.

If you can get through to legal departments, you may have better and more permanent success in getting whitelisted, see: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=30225619

But you might want to just sign up for a cheap email provider like Fastmail. If you self-host, you'll likely spend at least $5/mo for the VPS anyway, and if you have 100 or fewer custom domains, Fastmail is just under $5/mo, so I'd say that's a better deal than self-hosting.

nurlennart• 2 years ago

surprised to see no mention of https://mailcow.email/

dusted• 2 years ago

I'm still self-hosting.

I have a server in my home, on my private internet connection, it runs postfix and dovecot.

It works fine. But beware: Sending mails become a hassle as your ISP might block outgoing mail on port 25, you'll need to convince them to provide you with the details of their relay machine. On my connection, I needed the correct reverse-dns entry to be present for their server to actually relay for me, this proved hard because their support didn't understand that THEY were the ones in control of rdns, they only knew about forward-dns.. It took me some linkedin sniping and a nontrivial amount of social engineering to infiltrate their netops enough to find a guy that I could convince to add the rdns entry. It was very painful.

It was in sharp contrast to when I joined the Internet around the turn of the century, on my ADSL, the ISP had a polite letter apologizing for blocking outgoing port 25 and full indstructions on how to use their relay host, even a few lines on how to configure exim to use it.

A slightly convoluted way of getting out, that I had to resort to during aproblem at my ISP, was the following: http://dusted.dk/pages/aWayOut/ where I basically used a cheap VPS as a "gateway to the Internet" for my server.

wyclif2• 2 years ago

There's also Mail-in-a-Box: https://mailinabox.email/

DamonHD3• 2 years ago

Sendmail and POP3/dovecot here, and a small static IP address block and a business service plan that allows server hosting. And yes, rDNS got more fun when I was no longer managing whole class Cs!

fruktmix10• 2 years ago

Really funny story, it's hilarious that your ISP had a polite letter about this whole deal centuries ago. Where did ISP's go wrong?

nijave3• 2 years ago

Somewhere between viruses/botnets abusing SMTP and discovering they could charge 10x more for a "business" plan

Lumeinshin• 2 years ago

It mostly depends on if you want to have a web frontend or are happy to just login to thunderbird/sylpheed or other application.

This still gets updated and works quite well: https://github.com/LukeSmithxyz/emailwiz it installs dovecot/spamassassin etc for you, so i guess i'm more vouching for the RPi. I think a 5$ VPS would be worth it, you can probably run other stuff on it too like XMPP

Only note to it i'd add is that depending on your domain name provider, you may have some issues with DKIM/SPF, but otherwise it should be fine.

ta12432• 2 years ago

I in general like to self host, but more importantly I don't want to be locked in.

I pay zoho £10 a year to host my email. I could do it via my ISP, I have a good one which doesn't have port blocks, offers as many IPs as I can imagine I need, and is shibboleet compatible, but even setting aside my own time and maintenance, I'd want two MX entries that were geographically resilient, so I'd need to rope in a friend or family member. For £10 a year it's not worth it.

However if zoho stops working, or bumps their price up, I can shift my domains to someone else with a change of MX/spf/etc records.

Only concern is that all 3 zoho entries are on the same AS (zoho), so that's a single point of failure. Not a major concern for personal email.

DamonHD3• 2 years ago

For resilience I keep some third-party accounts open, including an ancient Hotmail account from before it was Microsoft (!), and now a university account. Either would do in an emergency to some extent (like when my upstream ISP years and years ago held me hostage by blocking my email traffic with Network Solutions so that I could not move DNS!)...

fruktmix10• 2 years ago

€0,90/month at Zoho for Mail Lite right? How many domains can you setup with that? Their pricing page doesn't mention that https://www.zoho.com/mail/zohomail-pricing.html Other than that, I must say that Zoho is probably the cheapest option out there. I am using it right now (for free) but I can only setup one custom domain. This whole conversation have gotten me quite excited to see how good my ISP is so I have just ordered a RPi to try setup a email server at home (for fun).

ta12432• 2 years ago

Service : Zoho Workplace Plan : Mail Lite User : 1 Payment Duration : Yearly Start 11 June 2023 End 10 June 2024

Last year they charged me $1/month plus VAT. Not something I notice

I have two domains pointing there. Not sure how many I can have, but the domain renewal costs more than the mail.

I would rather spend $10 with a small(ish) internet company than $1 with a leviathan like apple or amazon. In reality I spend far more with the behemoths, but as far as I'm concerned every dollar I spend with a small company is a dollar invested in not making email the sole remit of microsoft and google.

manusia• 2 years ago

"I want to be able to send and receive emails from my custom domains but not pay 5-49$ a month in doing so."

If that's the goal, I usually just use https://forwardemail.net. Not self-host, but a forwarding service.

michaelsalim• 2 years ago

Another recommendation for this. I've been using this method for a few years now with no complains.

fruktmix10• 2 years ago

This seems like a very affordable and stable solution to be honest.

rianadon• 2 years ago

I've been using https://mailinabox.email on a small VPS where I host a few other websites and projects. I'd recommend it for the management aspect: It has backup scripts and a UI for let's encrypt and dns entries.

somat• 2 years ago

I enjoy running my own mailserver, Mainly because I know how and can tolerate delivery issues. However I don't think it is less expensive than a managed email service. I host it on a virtual server I am paying ~$10 a month for. I do other things with that server so it is hard to say exactly how much the email costs.

if interested, my stack is very simple:

openbsd: opensmtpd: opendkim

To read mail I ssh in and use mutt. imap via dovecot is an option I have used before. however because I using mutt anyway. ssh/mutt is a lot easier to set up.

I have not needed spam protection yet, when/if I do I will plug in rspamd and openbsd's native spamd.

I use https://openbsd.amsterdam/ as my vhost. I don't know if I could really recommend it to others. it is this effort to emply openbsd's native vmm as a service. The down sides: performance is not that great, it goes down twice a year for host updates. It is run by one person. The upsides: That person does a really great job at customer service. stable ip/ip6 address, reverse pointers. ssh based vm control.

rubatuga• 2 years ago

https://hoppy.network is an option if you are looking to self host in your home.

addandsubtract• 2 years ago

I use MXroute for my email. I pay for one plan and can use it with unlimited(?) domains. So good and reliable enough for all my hobby projects that need a contact address.

fruktmix10• 2 years ago

$49 /year is putting me off to be honest. Zoho offer is 1/5 of that price.

landgenoot2• 2 years ago

Not self hosting, but way cheaper than 5-49 USD per month:

I had good experiences with Infomaniak. Their email service can be used while the domain is registered somewhere else.

1.50 EUR per month for 5 addresses and unlimited storage, modern interface + imap, carddav, caldav, hosted in CH.

https://www.infomaniak.com/en/hosting/service-mail

singhrac• 2 years ago

Also take a look at Stalwart: https://github.com/stalwartlabs/mail-server

I haven't used it, but have used some of the sub-crates for some email-parsing problems, and it worked great.

ramzez• 2 years ago

I thought of running one on synology, but then thought if my static ip gets blacklisted for some stupid reason it can cause all sorts of problems, so I just started using purelymail.com

fruktmix10• 2 years ago

Fairly cheap, very similar pricing to Zoho, gonna look it up! What sorts of problems would occur if my static IP gets blacklisted?

kej• 2 years ago

Reminder that Google and Yahoo are both enforcing stronger protections starting next month: https://blog.google/products/gmail/gmail-security-authentica...

nijave3• 2 years ago

Fingers crossed these types of changes will lower reliance on IP rep

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