Ask HN: Do you need to be a "jerk" to get a complex project done?
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=2782736You have the task of managing and completing a very complex consumer project (think iPhone) that hasn't been done before.
The product is basically tasked with making something that is super complex, super simple. It will be pretty obvious to you and basically the below-average Joe if you failed in your task. It probably won't be obvious to anyone who loves working on complex things.
You have a fair size crew with some of the best and brightest geeks around. With that, comes the good and the bad. Everyone of them has an option on how it should be done and everyone of them likes doing their own thing in their own world and everyone of them can quit for another job somewhere else.
Failure is not an option. This product must be done and the product must be finished and the product must be perfect.
Is there a way to get this done by being very "nice" to them or do you need to implement some qualities which will cause your crew to think of you as a "jerk" or an "idiot"?