Ask HN: Is 'Silicon Valley' a Healthy Place to Work?

I have never posted here before. Please accept mis-steps.

I, like many aspiring software hobbyists and enthusiasts, came to SF Bay to learn and practice. In 5 years I have met people living in extraordinary circumstances.

- Commuting 2+ hours in traffic several times a week.

- People living in apartments nearer their work, 3-4 days/week. Separated from their family and children.

- Individuals working 50+ hours / week with less than 3 weeks vacation per year.

- People sacrificing their own health and well-being (and psychological well-being) in the pursuit of profit.

- Widespread and rampant personal depression.

Sincerely, it makes me glum.

Are there any parts of the Bay (or the) industry, which are not like this? Are there any other engineers who have experienced similar feelings, and left? Where?