Stars and “Moving up”
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=10862769Going from individual contributor to “management”, you really get a fresh perspective. I complained for years to get promoted into a management role. I didn't complain very loudly, so it took a while.
Mainly, I felt like I couldn't grow without it. A management role would give me a fresh perspective, and I'd have more access to higher ups, who have smarts I don't have. Important things I can learn.
I found out - I was right.
Useful info about how businesses work and what is really important, is hidden from subordinates. A little more is concealed, every level you go down from the top. Nothing fishy - just the way it is.
So now, I manage a pretty big team and when things aren't going right with someone - I get to hear about it, from upper mgmt or clients. That’s a pressure individual contributors don't have to worry about - but I always put so much pressure on myself as an individual contributor my whole life, I don't really notice it too much. I still believe it's harder to work - than direct someone else's work - IF you're working your ass off - that is, you are a star.
It really boils down to stars. As a staff member, you should want to be one. As a manager, you want a team full of them. Recognizing a star is kinda like obscenity. “I know it when I see it”.
I'm older. Seems the younger/sv area crowd are more into "culture fit". That seems a little too college fraternity to me. People say "one asshole can ruin the team". I suspect that's bullshit. The stars on the team are going to be stars - they can't even help themselves.
This is one of the reasons why you can't have a totally flat org - you need managers. Managers (among other things) are there to deal with assholes. You can cool people out without firing them.
There's lots of managerial advice out there. It's hard to find any truly useful information out there, I'll say it all comes down to stars. They are making it happen.